I’m the MOH for my friend’s wedding. She Originally said she was planning on a small guest list of immediate family and close friends only. I booked a hall for her shower that accommodates 60 people. Invites are printed and paid for already (expensive invites).
She just provdided a shower invite list of over 80 people, not including kids!! (216 people total for the wedding prior to the grooms dad’s family added to the list)
How do I politely make it clear that this is females only and no kids when I send out the invite? Can I say “Due to space restraints…” etc?